Wassup LiyiaTribe!!!!!! Thank you for tuning in at Under the Layers. Today is December 1, 2020, and let me start off by saying WELCOME TO DECEMBER!!!!! I thought it would a good day to schedule a Girls Talk/Advice. There will be a lot of suggested topics and issues I will be talking about; I hope you do not get lost in my mix of thoughts and emotions. I will be going off a list and having a bit more detailed information on this topic next week on my YouTube video. There are things that the average girl/woman is faced with in everyday life. I am here to discuss how they affect us physically, mentally, and emotionally. If you want just a little more insight into my life, feel free to check out my homepage where you can see brief segments about present-day Caliyia. Remember that throughout each week you will also still learn more about me since I am still learning about myself. Without further ado, let us get into this girl talk about some challenges we are faced with in everyday life. The first thing I would like to discuss is how to keep a relationship, but not just any relationship a healthy substantial relationship. Being in a relationship just happens naturally and it can be beautiful, but really stressful at times. When times get hard, your relationship should be strong so that you have an overall guarantee that you guys will last in some categories. These categories are communication, trust, loyalty, faith, and a closed-off/ private relationship. Starting off with communication, it is best to talk things out in person or over the phone at the least; so many things can go wrong and can be taken in the wrong context when it is text messages. In a relationship your trust and faith will be tested a plethora of times, it depends on how strong you have made your connection together. Loyalty is “a strong feeling of support” (Oxford Languages). Without loyalty, it is hard to create the base foundation of what your relationships should depend on. Lastly, you can keep healthy and stable relationship by having privacy. Everybody and their mama should not know your business. You can keep more intimacy in a relationship when it is secure on privacy. The next topic on this girl talk is going to be about love, love is an intense feeling of deep affection. Love starts within no matter how corny it sounds. Loving yourself can help you build up personality, identity, and confidence. Once you can develop a strong relationship with yourself, you can then overall have better relationships whether it is with family, friends, and your significant other. The last topic of the day will have to be one of the biggest problems in society today. Insecurities- Every girl has insecurities and it affects each one of us differently. There is no easy way to cope or get over an insecurity; it can eat at you for months or even longer. Depending on what the issue is, it can be taken care with time and multiple coping mechanisms. I cannot explain how to handle a specific insecurity but with time and truly understanding, learning, and appreciating yourself it will get easier and start to fade. That is all I have for you guys today, I hope this brings some ladies peace if they are going through something similar that I discussed. Remember if you enjoyed some of this girl talk you can see some more hands on conversation on my YouTube channel next week!!!
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Alright Ladies that is all I have to you guys, remember do not stress over anyway who can not bring anything to your table. It is not worth losing yourself and your peace. LiyiaTribe out!!
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